How can you tell for sure that your significant other will be forever loyal to you? Paige Woolen, a successful Instagram model, wanted to put this theory to the test by sending some flirting Dm's to her followers. With so many followers online, the model had no idea how things would turn to be.
What do you think? If you were in the shoes of a person who got a private message from a familiar model who starts flirting with you, how would you react? Would you stay loyal? Would you tell her off politely, or would you take advantage of the situation? Read on to find out what happened.
Most of us dream of having a perfect life. The right education, a stable career, good parents, and most of all, the best life partner. Attaining other things is mostly in our hands but getting the right partner is not so easy.
We may fail the first few times and get heartbroken, but we understand later the kind of person we are on the lookout for. Not every marriage is perfect, and some bad decisions may end up terribly for both.
The bond between the two
The institution of marriage is an eternal bond that unites two lovers. Whether they lose spark on the way or continue to build it up, partners need to communicate with each other and keep their marriage or relationship strong.
Some people stop putting effort into their partner, leaving them to seek compassion and love from others. Shutting themself off completely and isolating the person and their feelings can lead to a horrible outcome. How is your relationship with the people around you? Did you get into this relationship only to show society? Let's look into the story of not one but many relationships.
When everything starts to fail
Imagine yourself in a relationship, and if you already in one, it helps with the perspective. You don't feel like your partner has been throwing off the same vibe as before. After a while, you start to notice that this behavior is growing slowly.
If you are anything like a normal person, your first move would be to try and communicate this with your partner. If the communication is not helpful enough to get you clarity, then you need to bail yourself out of this place. We have all been in this place where we try and look deeper into our partner's lives.
Along Came Paige
Many of us tend to seek help from family or friends to try and figure out their relationship. But this woman took a different turn when it came to helping out couples figure out each other.
Paige Woolen noticed that many people on Instagram are capable of being rude and mean. She is not a big fan of focusing on the negative, but she cannot help but think about why some people would engage in activities that ruin a relationship.
Calling out the elephant in the room
It would hurt her deeply when guys who looked committed would try and engage with flirty talk with another woman. She is a person who feels healthy possessive of the men she dates, and she believes in giving the right space for her partner.
This space given should not be misused for the wrong reasons. Paige strongly believes that if a guy has problems staying committed to the girl, they should call it out openly and end it if there is no other option.
Never stab in the back
The model noticed that many men slide into her DMs and asks her for nasty things. When she took a better look at their profile, she would see that they have a profile picture taken with their girlfriends.
These encounters made her think about people in general. What would their girlfriends think when they figure out their boyfriends or husbands are doing this behind their back? Will the boyfriends be quiet if their girlfriends did the same behind their back? The issue is complicated, and there is no solution to it.
The famous model
Many men bully their girlfriends into staying in a relationship with them while they cheat around. Paige was sick and tired and wanted to give back and help the woman who follows follow her. What's more interesting is that Paige is an attractive Instagram model who has more than 250K followers on her account.
You can imagine with fame comes people who will love, hate, flirt, bully, and everything else under the sky. A pretty, confident, and self-loving person cannot be tolerated by some people. They will try everything in their capacity to pull them down.
The sneaky side account for sting operations
The typical behavior of people trying to be rude and mean is not uncommon. But a committed person trying to cheat burns her insides. So she decided to run a sneaky operation to help her fellow ladies out.
She first created a new or side account called Dudesinthedm. That account aims to try and operate as an undercover agent. If any girl has the guy feeling that her boyfriend is cheating on her, all they have to do is give her their Instagram handle and let the rest unfold.
Where it all started
Paige is in love with her body, and she loves to exude that confidence in the world. If people think that she is exposing herself and her body, it is merely their insecurity and hatred.
Calling her a pron star, slut-shaming her, asking her for nude pictures, and offering to send illicit pictures of themselves are some of the daily things she comes across. It all started when she saw a person asking her out on a date who had a profile picture of him with his girlfriend.
Calling out his bullshit
She asked him to explain the profile picture. He immediately denied any relationship with the woman. The man finally caved and told her that the woman is his sister suffering from cancer and would die soon.
Paige knew that this is a lie and suffered from the thought that this man would say something like that. She posted this on her profile as a spur of the moment with anger. The response that she got on this post was overwhelming.
Sliding into DMs
Both men and women loved that she called out on such men. Because of a few cheating men, many of them have to face constant insecure partners. Some of them even suggested that she should do this regularly.
Not only does it save the girls from falling into the wrong trap, but it is good entertainment for her viewers. She finally announced that she is going to start this as a public service. If anyone has a gut feeling about their boyfriends cheating on them, Paige would slide into their DM and see if they will admit having a girlfriend.
Denying a relationship
She does not want to flirt with the person and make their girlfriends feel bad. So she messages a basic text like, Just thought you were so so cute. I was hoping to meet up if you're single, of course.
Sometimes people do not reply anything back to her. But there are times when people reply to this message with something rude. Then comes those people who flirt back and completely deny that they have a girlfriend. Paige could not believe her eyes.
Snitches get stitches
This is where her undercover work stops, and she does not reply further. The next step is to take a screenshot and send it to the guy's girlfriend. She believes that snitches get stitches, and she is not going around telling a woman that their man is cheating on them.
She is merely helping those women to clear the countless doubts in their minds and helping them to make a firm decision. Paige likes to use her power to empower women and tell them that they are worth better.
Since then, she has had about fifty girls reaching out to her to make a decision. Among the fifty guys she messaged, about forty-two didn't respond to her message. Only about one or two people have officially ended their relationship after being caught.
The anger levels of some of these guys are really scary. They hate that she does something like this and calling out these cheating men. They threaten to find her house and attack her, and some of them even threaten to put up naked pictures of her online.
This kind of online attacks did not stop. Paige was also subject to constant bullying. People keep telling her that her beauty is fake, and she has surgically enhanced her body parts. Paige has very clever responses lined up for such people.
She is completely secure about herself and her body, and this helps her ignore these mean comments. If she did not post pictures regularly, people would DM her asking if she got fat and is shy to post pictures of herself.
Knowing your limits
Paige is not so sure if she started doing this because of her past experiences. But she knows for sure that she is the jealous type of a girlfriend and does not like it if the guy she dates goes overboard with the females in his life. She believes that fun is on one side, but people should know their limits. Paige knows the kind of mental relief a doubtful girl would get when she finds out her boyfriend is cheating on her.
The reaction she would get is mostly not sadness and depression but an aha kind of realization. Yes! I knew he would do something like this- is the typical response.
Not signing up for Onlyfans!
There are some hilarious responses that she gets when she is on this secret mission. Some people think that she is trying to sell them a membership to her only fans account. One man wrote back saying, No, I don't want to sign up for your Onlyfans.
I guess a lot of people have messaged him asking him to sign up for only fans account. What makes Paige so curious about cheating boyfriends is that most of the time, they pretend that it was the girl's fault, which led them to the path of cheating.
Paige called a prostitute
Also, don't you think that a person with more than 250K followers would message random boys who follow her? This act may raise suspicion if the guy puts more thought into it, but people who usually cheat have high self-confidence.
They genuinely believe that an Instagram model is interested in them. So they go overboard and flirt back with the person. In this process, some people mistake her and think she needs some money. Because of this kind of thinking, she gets called a prostitute sometimes.
Paige is the last person on earth to feel threatened by people who try to take advantage of her good nature. Many people have gone down that path by threatening to do something bad if she does not stop what she is doing.
As we spoke about this before, she loves to show off her body to the world. But it does not mean that she has to tolerate the people who spam her and say mean things to her. Paige has no option but to block them. Even after getting blocked, some people threaten to hack into her account, and Paige is always ready with a hilarious comeback.
Aggravation for one is a comedy for another
Paige goes on to say that she knows many girls go through this problem of receiving unwarranted pictures of men's private parts. Girls are not interested to see these pictures. What makes them think it is okay to do that with a random person?
She hates the word slut-shame and feels that a person should be able to walk naked on the street without being slut-shamed. Paige replies to one such message of a guy with hilarious responses. All she did was, correct his grammar when he was asking for her pictures. And it was sufficient to aggravate him and make him stop.
Urging people to stay loyal
Paige strongly believes that no matter which path of cheating a man takes up, the woman will always find out. It may be one week from now or one year from now, but they always will find out. She urges her followers to stay loyal to their girlfriends.
If they feel something is off about the relationship, they need to end it then and there instead of breaking the partner's heart by cheating behind their back. Some people are also creative when it comes to asking for nude pictures from Paige. She always has a pocket full of sarcastic humor to throw at their faces.
Sometimes it gets to her feelings
While she does a good job of ignoring the creeps in her DM, she cannot ignore all the comments. After all, she is human and does get hurt when people comment about her ability to work hard. She is often accused that she would not be famous if she had covered up and posted pictures.
Paige's passion may be to show off her body, but this does not mean that she does not work hard for it. Being an Instagram model is not only about posting suggestive pictures, shared Paige.
The men in Paige's life
Paige opens up about the relationships in her life. She says that she would not ask someone else to text her boyfriend and see if they are loyal to her.
She would rather find out later that he cheated and deal with it. Moreover, she is not the one who would continue to stay in a relationship if she felt the man is up to something sneaky.
No enjoyment in breaking relationships!
She does not like to go through the trouble of finding out and hunting down the man for his doings.
She believes that if the guy wants to cheat, there is no space for him in her life. She does not enjoy destroying another couple's life, but she does know that some girls need to hear the truth and be with someone better.
Monetizing the page
One of her friends suggested that Paige should open this as a separate service and charge people for it.
Paige does it to look out for her fellow girls and has no intention to monetize on it. She would never ignore the request of a girl and help her out as much as possible. Paige even requests the men in her account to respect a girl's choices and let them be the way they are.
Sting operation still open for service
This sting operation runs to this day while she helps many girls realize their worth. Many girls take the help of their girl best friends to create a fake account and try to find out if they are being cheated. But now they have their unsung hero, Paige, to cover this for them. She does not take anyone's help but runs this operation on her own. Paige also says that she loves to get rejected by these men.
This gives her a sense of satisfaction that people are loyal to their partners. If you ever feel that your boyfriend has been unfaithful to you, don't be shy to hit up Paige on her @dudesinthedm handle, and she will be happy to help you.